Don't compare your child to other children
(Usimlinganishe mtoto wako na watoto wengine)
Comparing children to each other is harmful. People do not have the same behavior even if they are twins. When you compare a child to other children, it is the same as telling him that you are not as good as others. Do not forget that you are comparing him to a child who is different from him in many ways, for example, differences in age, sex, etc.
You may love an active child because he is quick when you send him to buy things in a shop. However, if you follow him closely, on the other hand, he is not as careful as those who are not in a hurry. The slow-moving child, on the other hand, is suitable for carrying items that require careful handling and attention, such as eggs and delicate glasses. In this case, each child is good at a special task, so give them work based on their strengths and abilities, as well as the type of work you want them to do.
Usimlinganishe mtoto wako na watoto wengine
Ni hatari sana kumlinganisha mtoto mmoja na mwingine. Watu hawafanani tabia hata kama ni mapacha. Unapomlinganisha mtoto na watoto wengine ni sawa na kumwambia wewe sio mzuri kama wengine. Usisahau kwamba unamlinganisha na mtoto ambaye ni tofauti na yeye kwa mambo mengi mfano, wamepishana umri, jinsi nk.
Unaweza kumpenda zaidi mtoto ambaye ukimtuma dukani anaenda haraka na kurudi. Lakini ukifuatilia sana kwa upande mwingine hayuko makini kama huyu asiye na haraka. Huyu mtaratibu naye anafaa kubeba vitu vinavyohitaji uangalifu kama mayai na gilasi za udongo. Kwa hiyo kila mtoto anafaa kwa kazi maalum hivyo mtumie mtoto kwa kuzingatia uwezo wake na aina ya kazi unayotaka aifanye.
Dr. Lawi Mshana, Facilitator & Mentor, +255712924234, Tanzania
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